Primary school children need age-appropriate
information about sex and reproduction. This is not one big talk,
but lots of little conversations repeated.
Puberty brings about dramatic physical and emotional changes that
may be frightening to an unprepared child. Your talks will need to
include topics such as the stages of sexual development, what to
expect during puberty, sexual responsibility and relationships.
Understanding your child’s sexual
development
It is more common to hear parents swapping stories about
children’s first teeth and first steps than it is to hear about a
child’s sexual development. This is understandable, as it is often
seen as a very personal aspect of a person’s growth and
development. Yet this lack of general knowledge about what is
‘normal’ sexual development can lead to unnecessary anxiety about
children’s interest in nudity, ‘rude’ things and sex.
It is important to understand the stages of sexual development
your child is likely to go through at different ages and what you
can do to help them adjust to the changes they will experience.
Parents are often relieved to hear that helping their child
towards a happy, healthy sexuality does not come from any ‘one big
talk’ that must be word perfect.
Talking with children about sex
Sex education for a primary school child mostly occurs in the way
we talk about body parts and body functions, how we teach children
to care for, respect and protect their bodies, and when we prepare
our children for puberty. Choosing the right age to answer
questions such as ‘Where do I come from?’ and ‘What is sex?’ is
more about how comfortable your family feels talking about such
topics, rather than there being a perfect time.
Many children will have asked the question by the time they reach
school. By Grade 3 they will have a keen interest and will have
formulated some kind of theory. Many children will also have made
the link between reproduction and sexual pleasure, and will be
entering into schoolyard speculation and curiosity.
Talking about these issues shows children that they can talk with
trusted adults. Families lay the groundwork for children to feel
OK about their bodies and body functions, and to feel confident to
ask questions and seek help.
School programs are vital to support this process. Developing good
sexuality education programs shows that the community takes
responsibility for this aspect of children’s growth and
development. If families and schools won’t take the subject on,
children will turn to other sources of information that may not be
reliable such as friends, the Internet or the media.
Normal sexual development of a primary
school child
Don’t be horrified or alarmed if your child has an interest in
sexual issues or displays certain sexual behaviours – this is
completely normal. In the primary school years, typical behaviours
can include:
* They become modest and embarrassed about being naked in front of
their parents.
* They start gravitating towards same-sex friends and may complain
about ‘girl germs’ or ‘boy germs’ when speaking of the opposite
sex.
* Games with other children could include kissing games and
marriage role-play.
* Children are curious about gender differences, sexual
intercourse and pregnancy, and may discuss these issues among
themselves with varying degrees of accuracy.
* Sex play that began in a child’s earlier years, such as ‘playing
doctor’, may continue because children of this age are interested
in knowing more.
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